Last week, a group of etiquette consultants discussed via one of our LinkedIn groups whether or not asparagus can be eaten using our fingers. After much discussion, we all agreed our esteemed colleague, Peggy Post, answered this question best many, many years ago.
Peggy suggested, “When asparagus stalks are firm and aren’t sauced, it’s fine to pick them up with your fingers – one stalk at a time. Think twice, however, about using your fingers for unsauced, firm spears if your fellow diners are using a knife and fork, or if you are a guest at a formal meal. When in doubt, use utensils.”
Personally, I almost always use my LEFT hand to enjoy asparagus during a meal. (Unless, of course, the asparagus is extremely limp and smothered in sauce.) I use my left hand because I prefer to keep my right hand clean at all times in the event it is necessary to stand up and shake hands.
What are your thoughts? How do you feel about this recommendation?
Starla
I too eat asparagus with my fingers. But I like you’re idea of eating it with the left hand. Thanks.
Fingers at home in my kitchen but in public w a knife and fork